Most children are raised in families that have two parents one the mother, who is a woman and the father is a man. This is what they see in other’s houses and even in their friend’s house. They also see the same kind of equation when it comes to their grandparents.
Children that have to be brought up in a gay family will simply not come to terms with having a mother and father from the same gender. This can have a detrimental effect on their psyche because children are well aware of gender differences at an early age and also form their preferences watching their parents.
If among a gay couple, which is defined as a relationship between two men, one has to play the role of the mother, it cannot be natural. The child will be deprived of a woman’s influence in his or her life and also the child would have to deal with two "dads".
The gay couple may be very rich, very efficient and also fabulous parents but they cannot bring the natural stability into the child’s life. Children do not just grow up on comforts they also need emotional stability and normalcy in their lives. The concept of being gay itself is not completely accepted in the society and gay parenting has a long way to go. Children who come up in gay families will be stuck with severe social stigma and may have impediments in their natural though process. However, even before gay couples are given the right of adoption of a child, the best interests of the child has to be taken into consideration.
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